Fatherhood is good for me

Seventh year of parenting now and I still constantly complain how much less I get to do with having 2 boys in the house, and how all I long for is peace and quiet time. It’s true, they drive me crazy and take up a huge amount of mental capacity in my day-to-day. There is no mercy, there is no pause button. But somehow when I’m a father I’m… better. I am constantly on guard, I am focused and disciplined in the things that I need to get done for the day (before I finally have my peace in the golden hour of 11pm-12am)....

April 13, 2023 · 2 min · Amos Tay

Genuine Leaders

In my 10+ years of career, I’ve come to appreciate the one value in a leader that stands out above the rest. Of course there are many qualities that make a good leader - honesty, transparency, intelligence, charisma, communication, the list goes on. Perhaps it is some sort of privilege that most leaders I work with already come packaged with all this good stuff, and have become things that I take for granted....

April 11, 2023 · 2 min · Amos Tay

Hello World! -and Why I Write

First post! After thinking about it for years now, I finally took the plunge, bought a domain, spent three days learning how to build a static site with Hugo, and am now writing my first post. What really triggered me to do this was Ali Abdaal’s video on YouTube talking about reasons to start writing online, which really resonated with me. (The title is clickbait-y but the reason is not really to make money)....

February 19, 2022 · 4 min · Amos Tay